What is going on: is there something wrong? I hope you also know that you shouldn't ever feel you have to duplicate what a partner's previous partners have done, or try and one-up anyone in any way.
He totally flipped and ended up spitting at me.
So, what is it, when does it usually happen for whom? Come see her squirt and take a peek if you don't believe us.
I'm really sorry your boyfriend reacted that way.
And if you or a partner don't want to sleep in a big wet spot, you'll want to put some towels down first.
For the most part, ejaculation from the vulva or vagina most commonly seems to be linked to targeted stimulus, internal and external clitoral stimulus, or -- and most commonly -- a combination of the two.
If you want to explore this as much for you as for him, then there's no reason not to do so.
Too, while most typically, ejaculation from the penis happens very shortly after orgasm, when it does, ejaculation from the vulva or vagina can happen that way, or well before, after, or without orgasm.